How to never forget your key again

Even for those of us who have been singing in the choir or on the praise team for years, remembering all these different parts for all these different songs can be a challenge. But don’t you ever wonder how the person who teaches all the songs can remember all that stuff? How can they remember every part for every section for 6 different songs, when you’re having trouble just remembering yours? (lol) . To tell you the truth, we don’t. It would be very, very difficult indeed if we were actually memorizing every note of every song for every section.

Choir directors, parts teachers and music ministers/directors have simply trained their ears to listen to and understand harmony in a different way than most people. In an average 3-part harmony song (which is typically how harmony is structured in most Gospel songs) the instructor can hear all 3 parts together and then listen again and hear all 3 parts separately, singling out soprano, alto and tenor at will. Sound pretty amazing?
Well what if I told you most people reading this blog could learn to do the same thing? In fact I’ve proven this with members of my own choir who have, over the years, learned how to almost anticipate what their part will be before I teach it to them. The secret to never forgetting your part is to stop trying to “memorize” it in the first place. Sounds crazy, I know. But that’s exactly how people like me can teach the soprano part, the alto part and the tenor part for 6-10 songs all in the same rehearsal with no sheet music.

The key to retaining your parts is moving from memorizing to understanding harmony. Listening to and understanding how your part works and moves with the other parts to form the harmony. It’s very hard, for example, to remember your part and only your part if you try to do so by blocking out everyone else’s. It’s kinda like being in the middle of the ocean and all you can see is water in every direction. You have no point of reference; nothing to guide you or give you direction. For the song teacher, every part we teach is a point of reference that tells us what the next part will be.

In every song we sing, there are tons of these little points of reference happening all the time. Little directional pointers that tell us exactly where to be, what note to sing, how to know what note is coming next. The average person hears them but just doesn’t pay attention to them. The difference in the average person and those who teach songs to them, is that the teachers have taught themselves to listen to all of those little things and make use of them to remember all those parts.

So how does this help you, and how can you use this to get super-good at learning and memorizing your keys? Very simple. You do it by training your ear to listen to everything that you hear. This is a technique I use to teach “tone-deaf” (I put that in quotation marks because very few people in the world are actually tone-deaf) people how to sing on pitch. The same technique works for teaching someone how to get really good at hearing, understanding and retaining their part in harmony arrangements. To understand it better, let’s take a brief look at the difference between listening and hearing.

Imagine for a minute that you’re watching tv. It’s a Spring day, the windows are up and there’s a nice breeze. Outside you can hear children playing, maybe dogs barking. You can hear them, but you aren’t listening to them. You’re listening to the tv. Now imagine one of the children yells out your name. Immediately your brain switches the tv to the background and the noise outside becomes your focus. You can still hear the tv, but now you’re not listening to it. You’re listening to the children outside.

Do you see the difference? The difference between hearing something and listening to it is the value that you assign to it. You can hear things happening all the time that you aren’t listening to. When you begin to focus your attention on something with the intent of assigning some kind of value to it, now you’re listening to it. Each of us has the ability to learn to do this very deliberately, any time we want. To do so you simply have to learn to “listen” to everything that you hear.

This is the key to really understanding and retaining your part once you’ve learned it. When you try to memorize your part by isolating it and blocking out everyone else’s so you can “focus” on yours, you’re basically putting yourself back in the middle of the ocean. It will always be hard for you to memorize a random series of notes when you have nothing to go on or no direction to help you know where to go.

But when you begin to really listen to not only your part but how your part sounds with the other two parts, you’ll begin to develop a completely different understanding of your part. Soon you’ll notice all kinds of little ques that tell you exactly where you should be and where to go next. The better you get at listening to all that you hear, your ears will even start to encompass the band in that process. You’ll start to hear places where the organist or the bass player plays the same note that you sing on a certain word or point in the song. Now you’re not only listening and focusing on your part alone, but your part as one small piece of the whole musical arrangement.

Give it a try right now. Put on your favorite song. Play it first, listening only to the lead vocalist. Then play it again, this time deliberately making the effort to listen only to the background singers. Over time if you listen to music this way all the time, you’ll get to the point where you can start to actually drill down to and pick out individual parts in the harmony.

Having a hard time figuring out the parts to a song you have to teach soon? Let’s team up! You can book coaching time with me by the hour or in packages. Let’s get on Skype and work through the song together. I’ll help you figure out the parts and give you pointers on how to get better at teaching songs  to your group. Book one-on-one coaching with me here.