Listening vs. Hearing: an ear training exercise

y2.d7 | that edit girlAlthough it’s not true of all church music departments, many Gospel music ministry departments learn material almost entirely by ear. Many times the choir director or music director will pass out copies of the song(s) to be learned in advance of rehearsal. What they expect, of course, is that you’ll listen to the song and be familiar with it by rehearsal time, so that the learning process will go faster.

But the truth is, most people don’t really know how to listen to a song that way. Many people take the cd home and listen to the selections, but they listen to them the way they listen to everything else. So we’re toe-tapping, nodding our heads to the beat and just enjoying the music, not really getting anything from the song that will help prepare us for rehearsal.

The music director expects you not only to listen to and become familiar with the words, but your part in the harmony as well. Many people have a very tough time hearing their part in the middle of everything else that is going on in the song. There’s the music, there’s the leader, there’s all the other voices/ parts. So, if you’re an Alto, how can you listen to a song and be expected to hear your part out of all that stuff going on?

It may sound almost impossible at first, but most people have the ability to do that very thing. All it takes is some practice. Most people don’t know how to do this simply because it’s not something they practice doing regularly. It’s not something you pay attention to when you listen to music. We all tend to listen to music in it’s totality, or to focus primarily on what or who is out front. But if you make a simple adjustment to the way you’re listening- more specifically “how” you’re listening- you’ll find that you can train yourself to pull almost any part of a song right to the front of the mix, so you year that part or that instrument more than anything else going on.

Listening Vs. Hearing

You may have seen me talk about the difference between listening and hearing a few times before, but let’s review that really quickly before I explain this little exercise. Basically, the difference between hearing and listening is the value you’re assigning to it. As you’re reading this article right now there are several sounds happening in the room. You can hear them, but you’re not listening to them. They are background noises.

However if you were to-without turning your head away from the screen- stop reading and focus on one of those sounds, then everything changes. Now you’re LISTENING to that sound. It didn’t get any louder, but you can hear it much more distinctly now simply because you’ve assigned much more value to it. You just instantly switched from hearing the sound to listening to it.

Another example I like to give when I’m teaching this relates much more to listening to a song and picking out one particular thing to focus on.

Imagine a group of children outside playing.  One of them is your own. Maybe you’re watching TV inside, but you can hear all of their voices collectively in the background playing, laughing and talking. Again, you can hear them but you aren’t listening to them. So they become part of the background noise. Your attention-your focus- is on the tv show you’re watching.

But then after about a half-hour or so you realize you haven’t heard your child’s voice out there for a while. So now you shift your focus away from the TV towards the sounds coming from outside, and you begin to listen for your child’s voice. A couple of minutes later you hear him laugh. “He’s still out there, he’s ok” you think, then you simply switch your attention back to the TV show you were listening to and the children outside go back to being background noise.

Amazing when you pay attention to it, isn’t it? But these examples prove that most all of us have this ability and it can be developed quite strongly by doing a very simple exercise when you’re playing music. Here’s what I’d like you to do!

The Exercise:

Find your favorite song-one you’ve heard a hundred times and really enjoy. I want you to play that song, but this time I want you to intentionally listen very closely to everything that’s happening. Use a pair of headphones if you like. I want you to very deliberately pick out a specific instrument or vocal part to focus on and “listen” to it. Focus on it. See if you can follow that one thing throughout the song.

Your goal is to become better and better at making that mental switch from “hearing” to “listening” any time you want, and for anything you want. If you practice this on a regular basis you’ll soon discover you can learn a song at rehearsal and then go home and listen to it on cd. Only now you can very clearly and distinctly hear your part standing out in all of the other voices and instruments being played.

Understanding vocal harmony better, learning songs faster, retaining and recalling parts longer and easier can all be accomplished by simply learning to “listen” to everything you hear. I’ve been privileged to join a group of other Christian bloggers who support each other by reading and commenting on each other’s blogs. I love their comments because they always share with me how my article applies to some other aspect of our Christian walk.

In another article I wrote recently on the subject of hearing vs. listening a subscriber wrote to me after reading it, very emotional. He told me that even though the article was obviously about music, it possibly just saved his marriage. He said God had revealed to him through the article how he had been hearing his wife but not listening to her. I shared that to say that even if this is something you don’t think you need in your music ministry, it’s a very powerful skill to learn. It’s one that you’ll use over and over again in many aspects of your life you might think have absolutely nothing to do with music.

So try it! You only thought you were listening to your music. Try this and you’ll start hearing all kinds of things you didn’t know were there.

 

 

 

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17 Responses to Listening vs. Hearing: an ear training exercise

  1. alyce says:

    Ball park! It’s gone!!! And, thank you!

  2. AJay says:

    Awesome as usual. I sent this to my choir. Thanks for putting into words what I’ve been trying to teach them for years.

  3. A blossoming flower says:

    I want to study Nina Simone but didn’t know how.I needed this reading. Thanks.

  4. Hi Ron…This is an awesome article! This is something that we (my son and I) have discussed a number of times. He has recently finished his Level 8 with the Royal Conservatory on piano, but also plays 5 other instruments (16 years old) as well, has an ear keener than my own and is mentoring his dad in Hearing vs. Listening; as you say, the subject of hearing vs. listening is extremely important to family relationships, interpersonal communication and Divine communication. …Thank you for sharing, Hughie 🙂

  5. Claudia Looi says:

    Love this article. I do ‘tear’ the song apart if I like it really a lot. I usually pay close attention to the keyboard and drums.

  6. Ron ~ I almost had to laugh reading this when you mentioned people having a hard time hearing their part with everything else going on. I remember getting ready to go Christmas caroling once with family and friends. However, most of them were on our church’s praise team. Of course, they wanted it to sound super great, so we all learned our harmonizing parts. I can remember trying to keep up with them and would find myself changing a note in the middle to match my neighbor. Wow! Fortunately, after much practice and our leader leading well, we sounded wonderful when it came to performance time 🙂 Great article!

  7. Penny says:

    Thanks Ron for this ariticle, my son is a budding guitarist and had him read this, he learned alot…and I so related to the end of your blog with the husband and wifie issue. I have had my son say to me on occasions…you are not listening to me…good reminder. Thank you!

  8. Olga Hermans says:

    Oh..I Like this Ron. Never thought about listening to the music that way; it always has been a mystery for ma how a drummer knows when to drum….very fascinating. Love to learn more from you!!

    • Ron Cross says:

      Yes, Olga. I’ve listened to music that way all my life. That’s why I have to have a nice sound system in my car. It will really enhance your appreciation for everything you hear, but it will also sharpen your focus, I’ve found.

  9. Ron…Excellent post! I can relate in so many aspects. One funny one is that I had my husband’s hearing tested because he was always saying “what”? And, of course, the tester said he had selective hearing…lol. TV was more important. I listen to music all the time, especially when doing my art. Really listening is such a blessing, because there is so much depth there. Music is one of God’s special blessings to us!

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